Is he only interested in sex? Here are sure fire tip-offs that the handsome guy you want to be in a relationship with is actually only interested in you for sex. It should be no surprise that if he only texts, it is a huge sign that he only wants sex.
Only texts, only wants sex
If he is only communicating with you via text messages or emails it spells big trouble. If you never hear his voice, don’t get involved. A guy will give you very obvious signs he is not interested in communicating or engaging in conversation. That means he is texting you and keeping you around with an absolutely bare minimum of effort. If he liked you, he would talk to you on the phone and hang out with you.
Not ready for a relationship, only wants sex
All guys are ready for a relationship with the right woman. If he tells you the line that he is not ready for a relationship you should believe that he is not ready for a relationship with you. Guys will set you up this way to get what they want without giving you what you want. All of a sudden you are waiting for him to get over his ex, waiting for him to commit, waiting for him to decide to have a girlfriend. He will do all those things guaranteed, just not with you.
Going nowhere, only interested in sex
If you go to the same el-cheapo place, or don’t even go out anywhere with him, he is only interested in sex. A guy who is interested in you will do a variety of different activities with you. If he just wants sex he won’t even go out and will always try to making arrangements that involve him stopping by instead. If you catch on to his jerk protocol, then he might go out but it will be obvious that he sticks to what is quick, cheap, fast, and convenient. His intentions are obvious so heed the warning signs that he is only interested in sex.
Makes promises to get what he wants, only interested in sex
If he makes promises to you in order to get what he wants in the moment, but then does not deliver the promises, he is only interested in sex. If he claims he wants to settle down but can’t even remember that he made a date with you 24 hours after he made it, he is only interested in sex. Guys that are only interested in sex will make a bunch of promises in the moment as a means to an end but in reality, he will not live up to the promises. If he makes a promise then pulls a disappearing act, he is only interested in sex.
Makes plans to see you that night, only interested in sex
If he never makes plans with you in advance he is only interested in sex. If a man really likes a girl he makes plans with her and keeps them. He knows where he is, where he is coming from, and where he is going to. He knows what he is doing on his free Friday night. If his plans are last minute, or late-night, then he is only interested in sex. A guy that is only interested in sex will offer to come over after he is on the way home from his buddies birthday party. He is always on the way home from somewhere. Don’t be the after-date to his night, because then you are only sex to him.
Never met his friends, only interested in sex
A man that never introduces you to his friends and all you do is hear about them in some remote sense but never meet them, is not interested in you whatsoever. If he has never brought you around anyone he knows or invited you to a barbecue or get together where there are people he knows there, he is only interested in sex. Men that are actually interested in you bring you around their friends.
It’s just sex
If it’s always just you, him, and the four walls of a room, he is only interested in sex. If he is only interested in sex he will also be pushy about moving your location quickly to a place where he can (you guessed it) potentially have sex with you. He may claim to be broke and only capable of hanging out yet there is plenty of things to do that don’t require money other than just having sex.
The above tip-off behaviors are clear signs that he is only interested in sex. The signs are incredibly obvious yet when a woman is smitten with a man she ignores the signs and then obsesses herself with converting the non-relationship into a relationship. If she is really lonely and desperate she may even talk herself into thinking she is fine with such an abusive arrangement. This never works.
If he does not communicate with you other than some text message crumbs, trust me, he has no intention of being in a relationship with you, ever. Don’t be with a guy just to have sex because that is the stupidest decision ever. Your self-esteem will take a radical beating and it’s not worth it.
Signs that he is only interested in sex
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