Do you want to say sorry to your boyfriend and get him back into your arms? Sometimes all it takes is a few weeks of no-contact following by a good apology text message.
No contact means no text messages, no phone calls, no Facebook stalking, no Instagram following, no emails, no gossiping through the grapevine, no hangups, no profile checking, no following, and no drive by. Leave him alone. Take on a project at home or get into a beauty and workout routine.
After a couple of weeks have elapsed with no contact, try sending a sincere apology text message. Don’t place blame and don’t have “but this or but that” in the apology. Even if he was in the wrong, an apology coming from you can do the trick to get him talking to you again. It opens the door and maybe once he is talking you will get that apology you are seeking.
Sometimes all it takes is some patience and swallowing your pride to apologize first. This will soften him up and he might apologize too once you two are communicating again. If he did you wrong and you are hostile, insulting and hurt, the chances for making up are diminished. Let the anger blow over by going no contact and creating space for him to miss you. Then come in with a soft apology and see if he nibbles.
These are example apologies from a cute website called 365 greetings. You can get more ideas there but these examples should give you the basic idea. Look for ideas but make your apology your own. Remember, keep it short and simple. Even if you feel you did nothing wrong, apologize. Because he might feel he did what he did for a reason. There are two sides to every story so don’t assume you were perfect and it was all his fault. He probably blames you and has is own (albeit a tad warped) point of view.
A few example sorry texts from 365 greetings
I’ve been so immature
I’ve been so childish
Let me make it up to you
I’m sorry, babe!
(from 365 greetings)
When you walked out of my life,
You left emptiness inside.
Fill it once again by coming back to my arms
Coz baby, I miss you so much.
(from 365 greetings)
It’s my fault, I know.
That’s why I apologize.
Give me a chance to prove you,
How sincere I am to say sorry to you.
(from 365 greetings)
I texted you, you didn’t reply.
I called, you didn’t answer.
What can I do to make it up to you?
Please talk to me coz I’m so sorry.
(from 365 greeatigs)
It was my fault.
Let me make it right
I’ll start by saying I apologize
Sorry for what happened!
(from 365 greetings)
When we decided to break up,
That’s when the time I realize that you are more important than my pride.
Let’s try again. I am so sorry.
(from 365 greetings)
If I could turn back the time,
I wouldn’t have said and done those things.
I love you so much and I miss you.
Please forgive me, I’m sorry!
(from 365 greetings)
Baby, please forgive me,
I know I’ve hurt you so bad
I can feel it coz I’m hurting too.
Let me make it up to you.
(from 365 greetings)
I’ve messed up and I know it.
I will not be shy to admit it
But please give me another chance
I’ll do everything to make things right.
I’m so sorry
(from 365 greetings)
Hurting you is the last thing I want to do.
But I did, and I’m so sorry.
Tell me how I can make it up to you.
There are a lot of things that makes me miss you.
Your warm embrace
Your loving kissing
Your gentle touch
Happy moments that I’ll forever cherish
Please tell me you forgive me coz I miss you so!
I’m so sorry. Please let’s try again.
(from 365 greetings)
I know saying sorry is not enough to compensate for what I’ve done wrong.
But if you will give me a chance, I’ll prove to you that I am really sorry.
(from 365 greetings)
Things go wrong,
Harsh words have been said,
I didn’t like to go this way,
But things happen
All I can do now is to say sorry
And do things that will make you happy.
I’m so sorry.
(from 365 greetings)
I’ve done wrong,
I’ve said things that I shouldn’t
I was blinded by anger and hurt you.
I’m deeply sorry.
Talk to me and let’s settle this thing out.
I miss you!
(from 365 greetings)
There are things that out of my control,
And I think what happened last time is one of them
I didn’t mean to hurt you.
I’m sorry.
(from 365 greeatigs)
One of the biggest mistakes I made is to hurt you,
But I want you to know that that’s the last thing I wanna do.
Because I love you so and now I’m missing you.
I’m sorry, please forgive me.
(from 365 greetings)
You get the idea. Believe it or not, men do have a serious soft spot for sweetness. Sometimes all it takes is to give him plenty of space and then apologize. Remember that even if you feel you did nothing wrong, an apology can melt his heart. Are you just stubborn or do you want him back? If you are stubborn you will hold out and try to break him. If you want him back, you will hold out and then offer an olive branch.
Remember men are stubborn and they don’t like to apologize first. Not only that, they can stave you out for longer than you can stave them out. He may feel that you are part to blame for what happened to cause your divide. That’s why apologizing might acknowledge that there is his side of the story too. Don’t be afraid to cave in first. Remember, for this technique to work you have to give him a few weeks of no contact. Don’t bother him and don’t inundate him. Just let him go his way and after a few weeks send him a sincere apology text.
Well if this doesn’t work, at least you know that you tried. You’ve demonstrated that you know how to back off, that you have patience, and that you are a feminine energy that still wants him in your life. It’s a win situation no matter what. After you send the apology just let it be. It is up to him to take the next step and start talking to you if thats what he wants. Remember not to get mad if he doesn’t respond right away or at all. At least you’ve broken the ice and you never know what may happen down the road.
If you love him more than you hate him, an apology won’t do any harm at all and it may even help get him back into your heart. One caveat to this advice is that these messages are for someone you were actually involved with. If you were merely casual dating and he blew you off, these messages won’t make sense to him. So make sure you were actually in a relationship with him in the first place, otherwise he might think these messages are just over the top and crazy. You can’t get him back if you were never with him in the first place. If it’s someone you barely know, a simple “what’s up” would be more appropriate than a relationship makeup text.
Sorry text messages to boyfriend
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